Friday, February 14, 2014

Caleb: April 1, 2012 - February 9th, 2014 Good-bye to our good friend.



Sadly, John Zehnder and I had to say good-bye to our good friend, Caleb after a 4 day search on the Zehnder Ranch, above Invermere.  John & I found his remains  deep in the woods and realized he had been killed (quickly and efficiently) by a cougar.  
As anyone who was fortunate enough to befriend Caleb knew he carried a huge spirit within, and that, combined with his keen intelligence, outrageous character and love of life itself won him many, many friends over the last 2 years.  Caleb was also pretty whacky.  He had terrible fear-aggression neurosis with people, and was never far from harm's way.  I had him for 17 months, and during that time I was on 24/7 alert for his safety, and the safety of anyone who came into contact with him.  

At the end of last summer, John quietly, gently and assuredly assumed Caleb's care on their ranch.  John was a devoted owner and companion to Caleb, and Caleb adored him. John taught him more than I ever imagined possible, on sheep, doing search and rescue work, but most importantly, not to be afraid of people anymore.  For three months Caleb was aggression free with strangers.  Caleb lived a full and love-filled life in the time he spent, first with me (5 months at the cabin!) and then with John (2,800 acres of paradise!).  I let him go knowing that we couldn't have done anything more for him.  Caleb was Special Needs (a term my sons coined for him) rescue dog, and god only knows what happened to him in that first year of his life that made him so vicious with strangers.   But he brought so much to my life, and to John's that he won our hearts over in equal measure. 
Life feeds on life, and Caleb is now part of that stunningly beautiful and powerful animal, the cougar, and for me there is comfort in that.  A fitting transition on one life into another, I think.


John & Caleb training on sheep at the Zehnder Ranch above Invermere.

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

I sent my official notice for retirement this morning, to the Dean's office at Kwantlen.  The End of 20 years of teaching responsibilities.  Scary.

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Caleb = 'dog/heart'

On Friday the 13th, 2012  I adopted Caleb into our lives.  The name means 'dog/heart', as in loyalty and devotion.  Since day 1 of life with Caleb, I have to say the devotion and loyalty has been stretched to the max on a daily basis.  The real meaning of those words has never been clearer - or more of a challenge to live up to.

Meet Caleb.

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

The Gift of Music




The other day I celebrated my 59th birthday with friends in Revelstoke. Alan organized a BBQ/bonfire and 3 families joined us for the occasion. The best gifts imaginable came as our friends decided to perform for us and we were the lucky recipients of their incredible talent. Tashi and Logan sang and played their guitars in a beautiful harmony of voice and instruments. They blew us away with their collaboration. John sang us some of his favorites... and we always enjoy hearing his music. So refreshing to have someone who composes his own ballads. Soleil sang, unaccompanied, the most heavenly songs, and never missed a note. She was sweetness personified. I felt so incredibly fortunate to have these young people share their gifts with us....

Monday, November 14, 2011



My son, Alex, has started a new business venture, Wulfwork. He's decided to step out of the corporate world at KPMG where he was working as an auditor, and into the life of a full-time artisan. Big step to say the least, and one which I think has taken an amazing amount of courage. I am confident he will succeed in realizing this venture, and proud that he has decided to follow his passion for leatherwork, ceramics and woodwork in a bid for his own well-being.

The following is his website for this new enterprise:

http://wulfwork.com/wulfwords

Saturday, November 12, 2011

The whole cabin weekend was, well, Yum, Yum!


This past weekend Gord, Dave and I spent 3 heavenly days at the cabin. It was a designated work week-end (crisis at the cabin: no fire wood!) and we all pitched together to get as much done as possible for the short time we were there. We just purchased a chain saw (for this trip!!) and the boys wanted to put it to work. This particular saw proved too limited for the our wood needs, but David and Gord managed to buck, split and stack an admirable load of fir for the cabin regardless. I spent the entire weekend heating up buckets of water in an attempt to gain back territory from the relentless warfare with our resident pack-rats. They are winning, but we made some interesting tactical moves that should set them back a bit. David cooked up a roast that Gord brought for Sunday nights dinner - and he roasted it to perfection. Heavenly!